Dear Universe,
I’ve finally lost it.
I can’t do this anymore.
I love Him.
I can’t share him any longer. it breaks my heart and kills my soul.
Dead.
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I can’t believe it’s been a fcking year! How can it be? It seems like 10 minutes and 10 decades all at once.. It’s shocking the difference a year makes.
Dear Universe,
Wow, how did we make it to where we are today?
We fucking made it, and that is what matters most.
It has been a long, long, twisted, dark, scary road but we made it through the darkest and scariest parts. Alive. Alone.
And I am still breathing. I don’t even have to remind myself to do it anymore lol.
I don’t want to spend much time talking about Moon but I think seeing as how this place started out dedicated to him I guess it’s the place to put that I go longer than ever imagined without thinking of Him, and I rarely (if ever) cry over Him anymore.
That being said I have had the craziest fucking year of my life and it’s still just starting… oh my..
I have had people leave my life, some re-enter (a few of those only to leave again), I’ve met new people.. but most importantly I have allowed myself to focus on me.
I have let myself feel hurt and loss in a way that I don’t think many can.
I have always said that ‘here’ (this blog) has really only been just a tiny piece of my crazy mosaic of a life; it just also happened to be one of the most important and deepest connnections I’ve ever experienced.
But literally this was only one little sliver of my reality. I had to deal/feel/hurt/grieve for not only the love that I shared with Moon but also continue to nurture and care for and also deal with so many other things. I’m not proud to say that I neglected so many things in the very beginning of ‘the end’, I mostly neglected myself but I was frequently known to not return email/text/calls in a timely manner, if at all. I pushed away everyone, even the few who seemed to understand or at least not judge.
For months I would consider myself a walking zombie. I literally did the motions I needed to do to survive. Well, mostly what my littles needed from me to survive because really lets face it I was simply here because they need me and for no other reason at all. They saved me in so many ways, more than I even want to think about. Things were very dark here for a long time. But in the year that it has been since this blog post was written I have come leaps and bounds.
I actually spent a little bit reading the posts from the time this all started a year ago. It was so strange to read back, I have no memories of writing anything I read; it was like I was reading someone else’s story and even though I had tears streaming down my face, and they were sad tears, they were tears that were not for the loss of Moon; I can’t remember a time I didn’t cry for Moon, instead I was crying for the loss of the love that was created, not for the loss of Him. I had an immense amount of sadness for a love that (in my opinion) deserved to be nurtured and allowed to flourish into a love that is only dreamed of.
I don’t know if I feel anything for him anymore. I honestly haven’t thought about it. I know that I feel sad for him. I am sad that there was someone out there that was able to love so deeply and truly but yet he will never know that love. (please don’t misread that like I don’t think he will find love, I don’t need any hate mail, I simply mean he wont know this particular love and the depths to which it was rooted). I’m sad that for so many years he had to fake a love/relationship and put so much time into something that was nothing. I’m sad that he won’t be a part of my life. I’m sad for the loss of a friendship & connection that was meant to last a lifetime. I’m sad that the Moon I thought existed was as much a figment of my imagination as the Man in the Moon.
I’m hoping someday soon I will be able to find the time to write again. I find so much comfort in it. I miss being able to get my crazy out. I have so much of at times it seems.
I’m not seeing that time coming in the near future, especially since I’ll be starting classes in a month, I’m in the process of moving, & trying to ‘not push away’ the one person who shows me love on a daily basis (please send good juju/pray/dance naked in the woods/light a candle/cast a spell(only good ones please)/make a wish,do whatever it is that you do for me so that I don’t fuck this up, I don’t let my broken push away anyone good & also that I don’t let in anymore bad. Thank you!) even though I tell him how broken I am. He makes me smile, from that deep in your soul place.. Okay I don’t want to jinx anything or make it seem like something more than it is; simply 2 souls connecting and enjoying the time while doing so..
I haven’t done a zero-dark-stupid wee hours of the am post in quite some time. And I really fucking miss it!
Posted by moon lover on August 26, 2015
https://talking2mymoon.wordpress.com/2015/08/26/i-cant-believe-its-been-a-fcking-year-how-can-it-be-it-seems-like-10-minutes-and-10-decades-all-at-once-its-shocking-the-difference-a-year-makes/
I survived another week without you… I don’t know if I should be happy or sad about that.
I have so many unfinished posts. I might try to spend the morning sorting thru and posting. I don’t know how long I’ll last but is worth a try. I’ve got nothing better to do right now anyways.
Being sick sucks.
So I lasted about 20 seconds before I was interupted and now I’m sitting in the bean bag hiding out trying to figure out how its the early hours of the am again when I started this shortly after the sun rose yesterday I guess.
I tried to look at how many unfinished posts I have but it’s overwhelming. There are so many. I have so many tear filled letters to you. I don’t think I will ever stop writing to you. I dont think I will ever stop loving you. I dont think anyone will ever replace you.
I know that none of those things are true for you when it comes to me.
There was a time that you thought you loved me. There was a time that hearing my voice gave you butterflies and the thought of being next to me got you hard…
Now I am barely an ancient memory to you.
Sad panda.
Fuck you Friday. You sucked like I knew you would.
Posted by moon lover on February 7, 2015
https://talking2mymoon.wordpress.com/2015/02/07/i-survived-another-week-without-you-i-dont-know-if-i-should-be-happy-or-sad-about-that/
Oh yea, one of those kind of nights again… Fck. This blows.
I can find a tiny bit of comfort in the fact that soon there will be very few ‘new’ reminders of you popping up. As of right now I have spent so many years making US a part of my life and it has taken quite sometime to rid myself of the reminders.
I’m sure there will be some sort of reminder pop up of US from time to time for always but soon there will be no more reminders of things we had planned together, things that were coming in the future and we had planned to do them together.
The one coming up soonest is Fifty Shades.
You started reading it with me. I will always think of you when I hear that movie or book. I know you will be too busy making new memories to be reminded about old memories we had made but `I doubt I will be so lucky.
The yucky is setting in when I start to think about all of the things you will promising her and how you promised me the same and so much more.
If it means so when you say it to her why was it different when you said it to me?
How can you vow yourself to someone else when you’ve already done the same to me? Why are you willing to keep your promises to someone else but the ones you made me were disposable?
She deserves more than I? She’s better for you? You’ve more in common with her? Oh booger why bother. .
I know.
It doesn’t matter.
Move on.
Give up.
Never.
Posted by moon lover on February 2, 2015
https://talking2mymoon.wordpress.com/2015/02/02/oh-yea-one-of-those-kind-of-nights-again-fck-this-blows/
Diet Mtn Dew baby New York City… Baby you’re no good for me.
I have literally spent years writing about how I’m falling truly/madly/deeply in love with you.
Now I have to struggle to find words to describe falling out of said Love, and it’s soul shattering.
I feel like the words to describe our love the love we once had flow out of me so easily, almost barely having to think about anything before my fingers just take off and paint the most beautiful picture ever of a truly amazing love story.
But now I have to train those same fingers to paint the picture of something that is indescribable to me, something so dark and empty that I struggle to find words to put together. Not that I’m not used to writing about dark and empty because I am, don’t get me wrong, I’m all to familiar with that.
It’s what we’ve become that I struggle with. I’m having a difficult time convincing me, that the love that once shined brighter and more brilliantly than anything earthly imaginable has now become something that is so empty and broken that’s it’s not even recognizable. I really don’t have words for it and I am sure nobody cares but me anyway.
That doesn’t stop the hurt that I still feel from it, it also doesn’t stop the nightmares that wake me from the small naps that I try to sneak in at night (most people would refer to said naps as sleeping or bedtime, you know where you sleep at least 6 hours maybe even 8, yea I get 2 hour naps, if I’m lucky). Sadly I can try to convince myself all day long with my ‘I am okay, I got this, no one can stop me now’ attitude, but at night when the world is quiet and the house is silent there is no convincing my aching soul…
I wish I could just throw myself into another love like you have but I can’t.
I can’t find it in my broken soul to fake it.
Which only makes me freak out more thinking about how you have moved on and how you tell her how you are in love with her and how you would compare it to the love we had but there is NO way possible that you could have loved the way you said you did and already recovered so quickly AND still have something left over to fall in love just as deeply again…
I call BULLSHIT!!
You either never loved me the way you said all these years and everyfuckingthing was fake or… You don’t love her as much as you think you do and she’s just a band-aid for your broken soul. Bad thing about band-aids is you can’t keep them on forever, eventually you have to rip those bitches off as quick possible and toss ’em in the trash. But it literally only hurts for a second you’ve forgotten about the band-aid before it’s even hit the can.
I’m not looking for any kind of band-aid, I’m feeling and experiencing every terrible thing, and a few good, there is from this. I’m not trying to hide away from it and pretend like it didn’t or doesn’t matter because it did and it does. I have always been true and open to US and everything that came from US, even though this is what US has become I am still going to be just as open and honest with the pain and hurt of losing you.
I always thought you would too… How wrong I was.
Posted by moon lover on November 11, 2014
https://talking2mymoon.wordpress.com/2014/11/11/diet-mtn-dew-baby-new-york-city-baby-youre-no-good-for-me/
I was told not to blog so I didn’t, well I did I just didn’t post it… Until now.
So I’ve been told not to blog.
I know that no one on this rock knows me better than you so I’m pretty sure you are expecting this, probably waiting for it, and if you hate me well, I’ll just take the hate.
You know I truly had no intention of ever writing to you again.
I actually dreamt of you 3 or 4 nights ago.
It was amazing.
I wasn’t searching for you.
None of your features were blurred.
It was your smiling face and amazing blue eyes.
We weren’t fighting.
We weren’t hiding from anyone.
You didn’t reject me.
We spent a lot of time just snuggling together smiling and me hiding my face in your chest.
It wasn’t some steamy porno dream (damnit) but we did at some point find each other but there was nothing rushed or phony about it.
I felt happy, loved, and peaceful.
It was amazing.
I woke up feeling less heavy than I have in a long time.
I took it as a sign that my soul was finally accepting the fact that it had to go on without you and that I needed to accept it now also.
So I did.
And now this.
Not even 72 hours later and I’m sitting here with tears streaming down my face, mascara smeared, broken (again), hurting, not breathing, wondering why the fuck I am so fucking stupid?!?!?!?!?!?!?
I should have listened to my soul when it was screaming at me to ignore you no matter how hard it was.
But I didn’t.
I’m a fucking idiot.
I’m weak when it comes to your love.
I will fall for it everytime.
I still believe in it. (hey I already said I was an idiot ok sorry)
I think I will want to believe in it forever. Why wouldn’t I? I spent years of my life believing it. I truly saw myself believing in it for an eternity.
Stupid. Stupid. Stupid.
You still don’t want to admit to anyone close to you that I mean something to you.
You don’t want any of them to know that you care about me.
So who are you lying to?
Me?
Them?
Yourself?
There has to be a reason why you didn’t want me to blog about our conversations or Skype.
What is it?
You must really be lying to someone to go out of your way to make it a point to tell me you’d regret it because I would blog/Facebook/tell people.
Who would I tell?
I guess the bigger question is who would you NOT tell?
And if they mean so fucking much to you then why continue to fuck with me?
Why pretend like you love me and want to start over if it’s all just fucking bullshit?!?!?!?!?
I don’t think I will ever understand how you could say that you shared the love that I had for you when you over and over again you hurt/break/tear me down? If you had the love that I have/had there would be no way that you would ever want to hurt or see me hurt the way that you have.
I started this last night.
As we were arguing via text.
Before you text me and called me.
Before we Skype’d.
Before we spent time just being US.
Before we laughed as we tried to remember why we were fighting in the first place and then spent time trying to figure out why we started fighting in the first place.
Before we spent time just talking to each other, not yelling/fighting/crying(well a little bit of crying, it’s me duh)/hanging up on each other/blaming/denying.
I miss that so bad.
I miss the way that whatever we are doing it just flows, there is no awkwardness, everything smoothly transitions into the next. I’m happy that there was very little lovey dovey mushy gushy stuff. It was simply just US.
I missed the way you make me laugh.
I missed looking up to see your smile and blue eyes looking back at me.
But…
I’m sure it was a mistake.
I’m sure you really aren’t going to change.
I’m sure no one knows that you are talking to me.
I’m sure that you’d deny deny deny that any of the above happened.
I’m sure that I haven’t crossed your mind today.
I’m sure that I could keep calling for days and if you weren’t by yourself then you wouldn’t respond or aknowledge me.
And I am requiring more of that from people that I allow into my life.
On another note I have a new anthem check it out. I think it is amazefuckingballz!!
Posted by moon lover on October 18, 2014
https://talking2mymoon.wordpress.com/2014/10/18/i-was-told-not-to-blog-so-i-didnt-well-i-did-i-just-didnt-post-it-until-now/
I got another fck you text from you again… I text you with no response for months but now you’re sending the f bombs almost daily. Lucky lucky me.
I’ll do all my writing in picture quotes from now on.
Thank you Amanda Torroni for saying it so perfectly for me.
Posted by moon lover on September 14, 2014
https://talking2mymoon.wordpress.com/2014/09/14/i-got-another-fck-you-text-from-you-again-i-text-you-with-no-response-for-months-but-now-youre-sending-the-f-bombs-almost-daily-lucky-lucky-me/
I’m still here… Kinda.
I haven’t let myself post in a long time.
It’s been 8 days and 2 hours since I’ve heard/looked/talked/text you.
I’ve died a little bit more every second.
I’m trying my hardest to adjust to living without feeling.
I’m trying my best to not let myself completely spiral down the rabbit hole that seems like it’s always only a few steps behind me, chasing after me as fast as it can trying to snatch me when I least expect it.
But I’m aware of it.
I’m very aware of it.
It might not know it but I’m the one who has to constantly talk myself out of jumping in feet first and letting it take me the fuck out of here.
I can hardly believe that it has only been a week without you.
I can’t fucking believe that you have spent a week getting closer and being with her while I have spent a week picking myself up off the ground, running to throw up over and over again, not sleeping, can’t breathe, wanting to die.
But I’m sure you have had the best most relaxed week ever because I haven’t been there to ‘constantly blow your shit up’.
I honestly thought it would be so much harder to not contact you.
Not that it isn’t hard but it’s getting easier and easier to remind myself that you don’t care and that it doesn’t matter if I did reach out because, even though you said you would always be there for me, you wouldn’t answer even if I did call.
So instead… I wake up each day, after only a few hours of restless dreams where I seem to search for you over and over but can never find you, and put one foot in front of the other and remind myself to breathe and that you don’t care and that it’s ok because…
This too shall pass…
Posted by moon lover on September 12, 2014
https://talking2mymoon.wordpress.com/2014/09/12/im-still-here-kinda/
You’re gone. Like really gone. I feel nothing… But in brighter news you will be spending all of your time with a teenager. That you fell in love with but kinda forgot to let me in on (I’m gonna go puke, again).
Everything has changed.
Forever.
There will be no more US (I have been doing really good most of the day until I typed that out, now my palms are sweaty, the tears are streaming down my face, the sobs are choked up in my throat, my heart is racing, and I can’t take a fucking breath) ever again.
I can’t fucking believe it.
I am sick and destroyed beyond belief.
There is only one other time in my life that I have been this devastated and it was the day my grandma died and every day after for months.
But this time someone I loved with every ounce of my being wasn’t ripped from arms because of death.
No.
They walked away. Directly (and I mean that pretty fucking literal) into someone else’s arms and barely even looked back as I lay crumpled on the floor (again literal here) feeling like I have had my soul ripped out of my body (literal, you get the point I’m sure).
You did kinda look at me for a second and say you were sorry.
HA!!
Are you fucking serious? You’re sorry? What exactly are you sorry for? Last night when we said our goodbye (which is a whole fucking post in it’s self, and will be written just not sure published) I promised to not be mean, rude, or cruel but this is my blog and shit is about to get real…
Are you sorry for…
Lying and cheating on me for 8 months?
Looking me in the eyes and telling me you loved me and wanted me forever, less than 3 days ago?
Falling in love with a teenager?
Comparing said love to the love that you and I have shared and created?
Falling in love with a teenager? Oh, right I asked that one already, it’s pretty high on my list of questions I would like answered. Obviously.
Acting like I don’t exist?
Turning the most beautiful love story ever written, that could never have been written without the two of US, into ‘Just some chick you USED to date’? (this one actually brought me to the ground. Outside. In my backyard. Pathetic I know)
Ignoring me?
Being heartless?
Making love to me for hours (again less than 3 days ago) day after day but not mean one second of it?
Using me?
Taking my love for granted?
Letting some teenage kids harass me and joke about my love for you?
Rubbing it in my face that you ‘fell in love’ with a kid and letting her message me to tell me how much she trust you because you have never lied to her?! (ARE YOU FUCKING KIDDING ME LITTLE GIRL?! DID YOU KNOW ABOUT ME BEFORE I MESSAGED YOU ON Facebook OTHER THAN I WAS A ‘FRIEND’ OF HIS? DID YOU KNOW THAT HE HAS SPENT THE LAST 8 MONTHS OF OUR 3 YEAR RELATIONSHIP TELLING ME NOT TO GIVE UP ON HIM BECAUSE HE LOVES ME AND WANTS TO BE WITH ME? DID YOU KNOW ABOUT ALL THE NIGHTS WE HAVE SPENT WITH EACH OTHER DOING THINGS THAT A LITTLE GIRL COULDN’T EVEN IMAGINE? DO YOU KNOW THAT WE FELL IN LOVE BEFORE YOU COULD EVEN DRIVE A CAR ON YOUR OWN AND DECIDED THAT WE WERE GOING TO SPEND ETERNITY STROKING THAT FLAME? DID HE TELL YOU THAT HE WAS COMING HERE NEXT MONTH? NO? Yea, I didn’t think so… but he never lied to you right?)
Sorry, I’m apparently a bit bitter/hurt/destroyed/broke/empty/irate/angry/sad/dead.
I don’t even know where or what I was saying before that.
I can’t keep a straight line of thought at all.
I should be working. I was on my way there. Until I had to rush home and race to the bathroom to throw up the salad I thought after 48 hours, omg I can’t believe it has been that long… this may be worse than I though, I should try to eat.
So obviously I’m not at work.
I’m here with my coconut water and computer pouring out every last bit of US that remains inside, or trying to at least.
I can tell you I woke up this morning and felt something I have not felt since before I met you, empty. The real empty. I don’t know how else to explain it other than the fire inside of me that burned for US went out. You finally extinguished the last burning embers of US that remained inside and this morning, waking up after saying our goodbe, I could no longer feel the fight inside of me. Oh, I still feel the hurt and the pain but I don’t feel the burning desire to fight for US anymore. It’s almost like my soul knows that there is no more US to fight for and finally gave up. It is one of the saddest feelings I have ever experienced. I honestly thought I would feel that fire forever. I thought that there would never be a time that there wasn’t a burning desire in the pit of my soul to fight for US.
But it’s gone.
I don’t feel it.
I don’t feel anything really. I feel hurt. I feel sorrow. I feel more alone and empty than I could have ever imagined. The parts of US that lived in my soul were just enough that I could always feel them and be reminded that there was something to fight for.
Now that is gone.
There is nothing left to fight for.
I have let you go.
It finally happened.
And I’m so fucking scared I can hardly breathe. I don’t sleep. I can’t eat. I can’t stop thinking about how there is a lifetime left and I don’t get to look into your blue eyes, or kiss the dragon on your arm, or run my hands down your chest, or call you when I have a bad day, or run to you when I’m hurt, or hear you laugh, or see you smile, I don’t get to hear your voice, I don’t get to hear you call me pretty eyes, I don’t get to hear you say you love me, I don’t get to feel your love wrap around me and make everything else in the universe not matter, I don’t get to wake up in the middle of the night and fall back asleep knowing you’re there, I don’t get the happily everafter that you promised me.
I don’t get anything.
But you get her.
You get all of those things with her.
A kid, that I have had my period longer than she has been walking this fucking earth, gets all of the things that you spent YEARS promising and begging me to believe in.
This has to be a fucking joke right?
Like at some point, and I hope pretty fucking soon, someone is going to knock on my door and say that I was on a reality show to test the strength of my love for you. And that I won. Obviously.
Right?
I mean if that is the case they can stop this sick show and give me my Moon back.
Because I don’t know how much longer I can even exist without him…
Wait.
He’s not mine anymore. This isn’t just some sick disgusting reality show.
It’s real fucking life.
And it’s mine.
And you’re some little girls now.
You didn’t he want to let her go long enough to really give US his all. You never even stopped talking to her like you said you did. I was so fucking stupid to trust you over and over and over again while you lied to my face making me look like the stupid bitch ever.
How could you do this?
How could you take the love that I gave you, from the depths of my soul, and use it like this?
For the last 8 months I have been nothing to you but a cum dumpster.
And I’m pretty sure that is why I can’t keep anything down.
This is never the ending that I thought I would write to our Love Story.
You walking away willingly and without regret/remorse/sadness is not something I ever in a zillion fucking eons could have imagined.
Never.
But you did.
All for a little girl who spends her days watching Disney movies and quoting bands…
And now I have a whole lifetime to accept it.
Posted by moon lover on August 28, 2014
https://talking2mymoon.wordpress.com/2014/08/28/youre-gone-like-really-gone-i-feel-nothing-but-in-brighter-news-you-will-be-spending-of-all-your-time-with-a-teenager-that-you-fell-in-love-with-but-kinda-forgot-to-let-me-in-it-im-gonna-go/
I would have loved you forever. The good kind of love.
I don’t even know what to say or where to begin because there is so much crashing around up there.
I keep replaying a conversation I had with Him recently. He was yelling/telling me how I am wasting my time looking for the kind of love that doesn’t exist. He was trying to convince me how I should give in and have sex with him, how that would be the best solution to our ‘problems’ (which are pretty much he wants sex and I don’t, I should though because if I just gave in it would probably make things less tense here but I can’t do it because I’m stuck on stupid and don’t see myself with anyone else but you which is fucking ridiculous because you don’t ever want to be with me again so if I am basically sentencing myself to a life of sexual misery…)
See what I mean about I don’t know where to begin.
I can’t even explain all the crazy that is going on inside of me right now.
I am having a hard time making any kind of decision without thinking of how it would affect you or US. I have spent years planning each step with the end destination being US.
It sucks.
I am still making decisions with the thought of you and I in mind but you aren’t a part of the equation anymore. I am left alone. I don’t have you there to tell me it’s okay. I don’t have you there to love me or care for me.
Nobody cares for me anymore.
I have to take care of everyone but there is no one here to take care of me.
I don’t have a lot of things without you anymore…
I miss just staring at each other with big dumb smiles on our face.
I miss looking up and seeing that you are looking at me smiling your sexy smirk.
I miss getting butterflies at the drop of a hat.
I miss struggling to catch my breath because you keep stealing it away for all the right reasons.
I miss the way I feel when I’m with you.
I miss the way all you had to do was whisper, ‘come here baby…’ and I immediately I felt the tingles begin as well as safe, secure & loved.
I miss waking up in the middle of the night and you being there loving me back to sleep.
I miss the way you held me, before and after.
I miss the way we could spend hours lost in each other but still never quite get enough.
I miss the way it didn’t matter how many times if you said more she was ready and responding.
Ugh….
I’m depressing myself.
Do you miss any of these things?
Did you even feel any of these things?
Did I make them all up?
I’m convinced I had the wildest and crazy dream about you last night. It felt so real, I could hear you say everything you used to and I’m pretty sure due to sleep deprivation.
Posted by moon lover on July 16, 2014
https://talking2mymoon.wordpress.com/2014/07/16/2410/
