I was going to continue to write here but I am not.
I don’t feel better when I write to you anymore and really I don’t have anything left to say to you.
Or your EX WIFE who decided to stalk me down and read this (and I’m the crazy, psycho right?).
You were the best and worst thing to ever happen to me.
I will walk away with my head held high and only take the good that I got out of US because, no matter what anyone wants to think or thinks that they know, we made so much good!
You showed me that even though you were a phony/fake/lying/cheating lover, I am able to love from the depths of my soul with a love that is everlasting.
I know that I can allow someone in and see the deepest darkest parts of me.
I have learned through all of this that the love I felt and the amazingness that was made, came from my soul, the depths of my soul, which means I can feel all of these things again.
I just have to find someone worthy of the love that I have to offer.
And you are not that person.
But I am learning now, quicker than ever, that all of the good things that you said I had other people see in me as well and they voice them to me. Maybe they have been saying them the whole time but I have been so deafened by our love that I didn’t hear them.
But I am hearing them loud and clear now.
And I am trying my hardest to not brush them off or shush them but to take each one with a smile and a thank you instead.
Oh, and I did want to give you one more THANK YOU for calling/texting/sexting and video messaging the other night and then leaving with a FUCK YOU again after figuring out you weren’t getting anything.
Mucho appreciated!!
How nice for you to waltz back in for only sixty-ish minutes, because I am sure that either that little girl or someone else became available that was more important than me, and pretend to care and love and miss me telling me how much you do but then immediately switch to a fuck you, you’re done?!
You make me laugh!
You don’t have the option of being done!
Because you never had another chance my dear!
I meant it when I said I will love and care about you forever!
I truly will from the depths of my broken, but healing, soul.
But I will love myself just as fucking much.
And I will NOT allow myself to be surrounded by people who are neither honest or sincere, people who lie, cheat, and treat me with no respect, who are cold-hearted and soul-less, who tell me one thing to my face while telling some little kid/EX-Wife/friends that I meant nothing to you and were nothing but just some chick you used to date, that I am crazy and won’t leave you alone and keep blowing up your phone (has your phone rang or have you received a text from me in weeks? Didn’t think so, with the exception of the EX incident) while never telling them that you have been filling me full of bullshit lies and texts/emails/voicemails/video messages/love sessions begging me not to give up that you loved and wanted me blah blah blah…
You were all of those things to me.
I had to revise the ending and remove my snarky comments to your EX, just in case she decides to come back and take a peak, because I realized that bitch has no place here and never will.
How fitting that this song just came on Pandora while I’m posting my final goodbye…
In all the world… there is no better heart for me like yours.
In all the world… there is no better love you for like mine.
~Maya Angelou